Tuesday, 12 May 2015

The weekend after that ...

I was the best man at my dear delightful perfect friend Jacques and Hisako's wedding.  I love this pic.  Hisako is Japanese, and therefore ultra-refined and graceful - but also with a wicked-lovely charm - which I think this photo caught a perfect moment of.  I am so happy to have been part of this.

Ev thought that being a double ninja was a perfect foil to the week's school ahead.

A surprise in Frankfurt


 This was a very lovely surprise for me in Frankfurt: before I started working for CFA, I went to their annual conference in Singapore.  On the first morning I was there, I went down to breakfast in the hotel, and started chatting to this lovely lady that I met.  We ended up having breakfast together.  Later on it turned out that she is the mum of a senior colleague of mine, Jenine, and had traveled to Singapore with her.  Two years later, Frankfurt, the same CFA Annual conference, and guess who was there, again traveling with Jenine.  It was a very cool little reunion - and a reminder of the great delight there is to be had chatting to people who you don't know - but might well end up knowing and being so much better for it.  Lovely life; and lightning quick photographic skills on the part of Jenine, who kindly sent me these two photos.

Friday, 1 May 2015

Today - the first of May


Today, Ange and I have been married for seventeen years; speaking for myself, it feels better now than ever before - I'm so grateful for that.

Today, the Death Star got finished - a celebratory photo of the last piece being put on top, by the person who built the first half.  Ev was about to put it on, but then decided to ask Aiden to do the honours - infinitely sweet and brotherly.

To round it all off, we went down to the Marina, and the little guys (ok a couple by the bigger guy too) flew some light-rocket devices that Ange brought back from Indo - they were soooo cool against the night sky.  Perfect day - it's such a perfect day.

Germany

A word of advice, before I get into this (which for me was very largely about my dear friend Ponti) - apply for a job and move to Germany as soon as you can.  I cannot state this strongly enough - sure there must be a million things wrong about the place - but I couldn't see them anywhere (an ominous winter?  So what?  Skiing!  You don't speak German?  No big deal (everyone, it seems speaks English, and German is clearly learnable (and has some meaningful overlaps with Afrikaans); what's more, you speak mathematics and engineering fluently - widely appreciated languages in Germany, it would seem.)  Immensely cool people; Tokyo clean and yet hugely chilled.  Seemingly classless (i.e. no bastards looking down their moneyed nose at others).  Somehow an absence of preoccupation with petty issues; apparently real issues only; real feeling people.

So off the geography and onto Ponti - the delightful Leon Engelbrecht - who I miss enormously, and had such fun being with for a day.  I think it was also the best weather that I have experienced anywhere, every.  Crisp, warm in the sun, cool in the shade.  I had limited time, kindly he fitted some client work in and a visit to his inlaws - and drove down to Frankfurt where my show was on.  Sadly I therefore did not see Sabine and Lea - who look from the many photos I saw, alarmingly exactly the same (Sabine) and completely different (Lea) - all grown up of course.  Ponti himself appears unaffected by the decade that has passed since we last hung out.  So what to do?  Hire bikes and attack Frankfurt:

 Just about every person I spoke to about being impressed with the place said something like, oh no, if you like this you should really go to Munich or Berlin, those are the places you should really see - which left me wondering just how much better it might be supposed to get.  I did not attempt photography whizzing along the city streets, but every street - right in the very centre of the city too - has a bike path, with it's own set of traffic signals, and absolutely tons of people are using bikes for transport.  The ones we got were called trekking bikes - a sturdy steel frame workhorse with a carrier - turned out to be super-useful, and built in electrics - in the form of front and back LED lights, which were powered via a small generator in the front hub.  So they were just on all the time, without discernible addition to the riding effort.  And Germans are big - so absolutely no problem to get a frame that fitted, with a saddle-pole that rose to the appropriate height.  If I had to choose, I would probably go for something with a bit steeper steering angle - this was not a bike to be swerved suddenly - more a cruiser - which in itself saved us, I am sure, as the ride got quietly more and more booze fueled.  I blame the Germans for this of course, in the miles and miles of path along the river, there were a good number of watering holes - and absolutely everyone looked like they were keen to celebrate the pending summer.


 Beer garden for lunch, of course - and fantastic as one would expect.

A great German invention - the mobile cocktail bar - which appears next to the river on days like these - perfect days.  We subscribed on several occasions.

The river strip was full of people catching rays.  The dude on the roller-blades is just chilling along with cocktail in hand.  The girl behind to the right, smiles warmly for the camera.



Lovely smiling Ponti, the danger of photography on the move, backwards, bringing the smile - it was at this stage already a risky business...

.... as you can see.  Cheers to another cocktail, the chairs belonging to the cocktail bar - help yourself.

Crossing the river, could probably have swum it - underwater - feeling like supermen.

When I say Germany is bike territory - it really is - all sorts of bikes.  Saw these two very cool recumbents - two guys on a tour together - and that is the way to travel on a bike, super comfy, hugely improved wind profile - feet out in front. 

Arriving back at the hotel - at this stage it was probably better not to have bikes - just the best day I have had in a very very long time; friendship, sunlight, bicycles, real civilization, and a big party thrown in.


Sunday, 19 April 2015

Boys in bed on sunday night

I gave Ev a conference folder and a pen.  It has a pad inside.  He uses it to write sometimes quite long stories - a few pages at a time.  Then he puts the pen away and zips it up.  Quite secretive.  Tonight's edition was called "The Terribel Weekend" - I was relieved to get a glance of the first line and find that it was about a family that went away for the weekend ... 

Aiden's at last been bitten by a bit of a reading bug - spies and secret agents and missions impossible.  Good stuff for keeping those Sunday night blues at bay.

Pics of you three at Trev and Lexie


I concede that there is something very weird about this photo that I concocted - good sports all of you for agreeing to it - and of course I absolutely love it - in the world of the instagram filter selfie, no one takes still life portraits any more :-)

You beautiful thing

I of course now regret how lazy I was with the camera while you were here - but it really is not remotely interesting taking photos with such fascination around.

Love the Onesie - hope that winter is much nicer for slothing around in

I went to Hang Hau on Saturday to the hardware store with Aiden - he raved about how cool it was to go to the shops with Josh.  You were so lovely to the little guys - thanks - we all utterly adore you and feel whole being with you again.  Death star action with Ev - and below what it looked like at the end of a build this Sunday afternoon - top deck on - all springing off your foundations.  Ev very pleased